The other day, I was talking to my friend Bridget about her new guy. He was everything she said she wanted: smart, handsome, funny, gainfully employed in a creative profession, and committed to the same social causes she was. Most awesome of all, sex was h.o.t. You know, the kind where your lips touch and all hell breaks loose. Who knows why this happens with some and not others, it just does.
They?d been together for almost six months and she was really, really happy. And also really, really anxious.
The problem? They lived a few hours apart. Getting together was something they had to plan or it wouldn?t happen. She was getting the feeling that all the planning mojo was coming from her and if she didn?t suggest it, he might let the whole thing slide. How was she supposed to read this? Didn?t he feel what she did? Wasn?t he thinking at all about the future with her? I mean, they were both in their mid-30s so it wouldn?t be a stretch to imagine he was. But what if he wasn?t? Should she push the conversation or wait and see what happens?
Well, who knows, but the first question that came out of my mouth was, do you think this is meant to be a love affair or a relationship?
Not everyone you fall in love with is a person you should have a relationship with. Just because you have an intimate connection with someone, no matter how deep, doesn?t mean this will make a good relationship.
Some people prefer love affairs while others are more focused on relationships. Of course there is no right or wrong, although in our culture, we?re think that our love affairs should (seamlessly) become relationships and that our relationships (somehow) should also remain love affairs.
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Source: http://www.allword-news.co.uk/2011/05/27/is-this-a-relationship-or-a-love-affair/
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